The Liberation of Fully Alive

Hey. You may or may not know about the wellness program that I designed for CoachVille called the Fully Alive Makeover Program. It has been one of the communities that made up the Schools of CoachVille's 1,000 hours of coach training. I based it on the work that I do with my wellness coaching clients and of course, since I trained at Coach U and CoachVille, it was influenced by the work of Thomas Leonard.

Anyway, my deal at CV was that I would get a percentage of the profits generated by the community and by sales of the SOC in exchange for sharing my work with them and I got the cool title, "Visionary Coach", to boot. The profits were to be paid for life (and paid to my daughter, after I'm gone). Well the profits have been pretty skimpy and since I officially left CV last year, they've been zero, so I recently asked CV to take down Fully Alive. The good news is, they've agreed!

After May 5th, Fully Alive will no longer be available through CoachVille. I know SOCers have been attending the classes, tho taught by Community Coach, Adela Rubio, who has valiently carried on. I don't want anyone to miss out, plus I'm used to getting $zip for Fully Alive, so what I've decided to do is run the entire program for FREE.

Today, May 2nd, is the first class that I've done on this subject for 10 months. It's a new class, tho, on "The Inner Body", a cool concept that you can read about in Eckhart Tolle's book, A New Earth. This particlular class is aimed at coaches, because it's scheduled as part of the Confab (Plus if there was ever a group that needs to upgrade its self care, it's coaches!) tho the program is for everybody.

I'm thrilled to have Fully Alive back. It was languishing in obscurity at CV and the material really is important, especially for coaches. And selfishly, I'm looking forward to getting back into my natural habitat, which helps me make healthier choices for myself. (My recent trip to NY & NJ was celebration of over indulgence from champagne to bon bons and everything in between. Celebrations are fabulous and getting back to self care is a relief!)

If you'd like to stay informed about free classes coming up via the Fully Alive Wellness program, sign up at www.fullyalivewellness.com Adela and I will be teaching.

See you there!

Copyright, Julia Stewart, 2006

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No Wonder Clients Aren't Buying

I still watch 60 Minutes every Sunday night, if I can catch it. Last night, they had a feature called, "BS Rules". It was tough, because they couldn't actually say the word in the title.

"BS Rules" was inspired by an unexpected bestseller by, Harry G. Frankfurt, a distinguished professor of philosophy at Princeton University. ON BULLSHIT is a serious philosophical work that normally would only sell a few hundred copies, but the title has struck a chord with so many that it's selling hundreds of thousands.

Hey, it struck a chord with me, too!

I've specifically thought about this in regards to coaching. (Well I do sort of have a one-track mind.)

I've been meaning to write about this subject since the first day of the CoachVille Annual Conference, when Dave Buck got up and asked, What's wrong with coaching?

Without stopping to think, I spontaneously wrote in my notes:

The hype has separated us from our souls.

I stared at that for a few seconds and forgot to listen to Dave, anymore. The hype is killing us, quite simply.

What hype? Marketing hype! Branding hype! Advertisements disquised as newsletters! Products that will make coaches money! Yadyadayada!!

Geeze! I'm so sick of hype, I'm choking on it. And hype goes deeper than that, too. It shows up in promises that aren't kept, even though you meant well. It shows up in products that are designed according to what the market is buying, not what people want. It shows in compromised integrity. It shows up when you strive to get people to buy, rather than attract them, because you have something they really want. In other words, hype is BS.

Coaches mean well. They're just not thinking at a high enough level to attract clients. No wonder people aren't buying!

We're operating at a paradigm level that's no higher than (or even lower than) most of our potential clients. The materialistic/entrepreneurial/corporate mindset that has dominated American culture for decades is in decline. Corporate refugees, victims of downsizing, burned consumers; those people don't want more of the same. They've had it. Coaches need to be operating at a higher paradigm then that, in order to help them shift to a new way of thinking. That's what coaches are for! Not to insert them in our product funnels and squeeze more and bigger dollars out of them.

Why should people trust us with their lives, their dreams and their futures if they feel like our first motive is to make money from them? Most people live in such a climate of mistrust that if they sniff even the slightest bit of an agenda, they become suspicious. Not a good place for our coaching clients to be coming from!

So how did we get here and what do we need to do about it? Well, Thomas stretched out thinking. Remember that? And coaching was growing, then. Then we lost Thomas. Since then, lots of coaches have tried to step into his shoes, but none of them are thinking like Thomas, yet. They're striving, instead of attracting and they're becoming less attractive, as a result.

It wouldn't hurt to go back to some of the old Thomas material, like Irresistable Attraction and place our faith in that. Only let's don't stop there. The world is still moving forward and Thomas can't keep leading us. Look for new voices and new ways of thinking. Look outside the coaching industry for inspiration. Watch what's going on in the world and notice where it's heading and where it's been. Coach the present and future, not the past. Start leading, yourself.

And stop trying so hard!

Most coaches come into the profession, because they're not BS artists. They care about truth and other values. How silly to train them to BS their potential clients.

If you want to actually attract clients, Fresh Thinking Rules.

Copyright, Julia Stewart, 2005 http://www.yourlifepart2.com